+ Give each other simple, non-pink gifts. I've been eyeing these zinc letters of our initials.
+ Host a dinner party. Valentine's Day doesn't just have to be about the two of you. Invite some friends over for a night of food and games. It can be as un-Valentine-y as you'd like.
+ Make it a good mail day. Instead of love notes, use Valentine's Day cards as a way of checking in with the people you love. Minted has so many cute ones this year and I love the idea of sending a updated photo postcard to family & friends as a way of saying "Hi, we love you!" on Valentine's Day.